T & B

We're getting married!

December 02, 2022

About Tom and Becca
For those of you who do not know our story we thought this would be a great place to share....

Once upon a time..... oh no wait that's the start of a different story, lets get back to ours....

March 2020 the world fell apart, the pandemic bought the world to a grinding halt for some of us, and others like Tom it got even busier than normal. As Tom worked round the clock, I spent 4 months alone in my apartment, with only facetimes and zooms to keep me company. 
As the world eased its restriction's after lockdown one, we both took to a well known internet dating site to ease back in to the dating scene. On a Sunday night in August, Tom and I met awkwardly socially distanced in a pub in Tunbridge Wells, our friendship and relationship grew from that moment on and soon we were facing the imminent arrival of lockdown two, it was either make or break of us and after deciding to form a support bubble it was either going to be the worst decision or the best of our lives, thankfully it was the latter. 
After a very bumpy Christmas of injuries and Tom giving my family Covid, we fell in love. 
The rest they say is history.....

We moved in together a mere 9 months after meeting and engaged 5 months later, like they say, when you know, you know!! 

We cannot wait to celebrate our wedding with you all and start our exciting new chapter with you all by our sides. 

Married for

1

year

2

months

21

days

Tom Bristow & Becca Esposto

Would like to invite you to our upcoming wedding. 

We ask the dress code of black tie with a Winter/ Christmas twist be observed. 

Please email with any allergies or dietary requirements. 

Carriages at midnight. 

We cannot wait to celebrate with you all. 

Wedding Ceremony

When

2nd December 2022, 15:00 - 00:00

Where

Ashdown Park Hotel, Wych Cross , Nr Forest Row , RH18 5JR, United Kingdom

Menu

Starter

Ballotine of Ham Hock with Caramelised Lyonnaise Onion, Mustard Mayonnaise and Air Dried Ham

Main

Poached and Roasted Sirloin of Beef, Parmesan Dauphinoise, Baby Spinach, Wild Mushroom Fricassee and Truffle Carrot Puree

Dessert

Dark Chocolate Terrine, Vanilla Ice Cream and Toffee Glaze

Please let us know, if you have not already done so, if you would prefer a vegetarian option. 

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Travel & Transport

Postcode:
RH18 5JR

What3words:
///lakes.multiples.starring

M25:

Exit the M25 at Junction 6 and join the A22 at East Grinstead and follow it towards Ashdown Forest and Eastbourne, passing through Forest Row.
Continue on the A22 for approximately 2 miles until you reach traffic light controlled crossroads, Wych Cross, here turn left to Hartfield. Ashdown Park Hotel is situated 3/4 mile on the right-hand side.

Alternatively, exit the M25 at Junction 7 to join the M23.

M23 from the North:
Exit the M23 at junction 10, take the first exit on the roundabout to A264 East Grinstead, past Copthorne village. Join the A22 in East Grinstead and follow it towards Ashdown Forest and Eastbourne, passing through Forest Row.
Continue on the A22 for approximately 2 miles until you reach traffic light controlled crossroads, Wych Cross, here turn left to Hartfield. Ashdown Park Hotel is situated 3/4 mile on the right-hand side.

A23 from the South:
Exit the M23 at junction 10, sign posted Crawley and East Grinstead A264. Exit the roundabout at the 3rd exit towards East Grinstead A264. Join the A22 at East Grinstead and follow it towards Ashdown Forest and Eastbourne, passing through Forest Row. Continue on the A22 for approximately 2 miles until you reach traffic light controlled crossroads, Wych Cross, here turn left to Hartfield. Ashdown Park Hotel is situated 3/4 mile on the right-hand side.

Electric Cars:
We have three dedicated car charging parking bays along the front of the hotel. Two of our chargers are solely for use with Tesla Vehicles, and the third is a universal type 2 – 7 pin connector.

If you are planning your stay but your electric vehicle is not supported by these charging points, please contact our concierge team who, with advance notice, will reserve a space near to a three pin plug socket, your own charging equipment will be required.



East Grinstead Rail Station (7 miles) - 12 minutes
Gatwick Station (16 miles) to Victoria, London on the Gatwick Express - 30 minutes
Channel Tunnel (79 miles) - 60 minutes
Gatwick Airport - 20 minutes
Heathrow via M23/M25/M4 - 1 hour
London City Airport - 1 hour

Redhill Aerodrome - 30 minutes
Biggin Hill Airport - 40 minutes
Shoreham Airport - 50 minutes
Ashdown Park Hotel & Country Club can facilitate several helicopters at once.

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Our gift list

In case you would like to buy us something, together we have carefully chosen a selection of lovely gifts that will help us remember our special day.

Alternatively we are going on our honeymoon and the holiday of a lifetime next year. We will be doing a multi stop tour of American cities ending in Hawaii. The option of a contribution to this is also on our gift list. 

However your attendance is all we really need. 

Thank you so much in advance,
Tom & Becca 

Gift List 1

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Hotel Recommendations

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Contact Us

If you have any questions about the arrangements for our wedding or want to let us know something specific please send us a message.